Facebook does not define you.

Facebook.

Its everywhere.

Guards use it.

Housewives use it.

Businessmen use it.

Teachers use it.

Entrepreneurs use it.

People working at the information desk use it.

Babies use it.

Dogs use it.

And not to mention the millions or billions of students who cant live without it.

Sometimes we get so caught up in this cyber world

We communicate with people better online than off

Not knowing that personal contact and touch is way better

Compared to typing, typing and just typing

Sometimes we don't even realize the rubbish we're throwing

We evaluate or presume someone based on their Facebook profile

The more friends they have, "they're cool".

The more games they play, "they can help me out with this level".

The more pictures they take, "they're so self-absorbed".

The more they talk about the things they do

"faith, work, family, or even the things they sell"

"Too holy"

"Such a workaholic"

"No life"

"So desperate"

...

It never ends

When Mark Zuckerberg created this

I don't know whether this was in his mind

I doubt it because he said it was mainly to share his sister's wedding pictures

Turned out to be a phenomenon.

So Facebook,

Is there more pros than cons

Or cons than pros?

Something I'll never know.

The thing is

I have come to places where I feel all sad because no one visited my wall

Or I don't have enough friends compared to my pals

I'm not increasing in any level on the games I play

And I don't have cool pictures like the rest

But all that has changed.

Facebook does not define me,

God does.

A friend posted something on my wall

And was surprise to see my reply on hers

She thought that I would write it in the comments area

Reminded me of how I would have done that long ago

Just so that people can see how many comments I have

Or how many people writes on my wall

But its different now

I'm growing up

And beginning to realize

That although it may seem

That Facebook is everything

I mean kids spend 4 hours on it per day

And thats far from the extreme.

Its not who I really am

Yes, people do see my information

Yes, they see my profile

My pictures, my whereabouts, my friends

But they don't see the real me

My physicality, my feelings, my emotions

My height =P, my life, my faith

The.Real.Me.

And so many are basing their friends on these profiles

That may not even be true!

We can say we're ok

We're fine

We're lonely

We're depressed

We're bored

We're this, We're that

We're emoing

We're frustrated

We're happy

Or whatever

But who knows the truth but you?

Some people use Facebook to tell off others.

Some use it to get things they want.

Some use it to make friends.

Some people use it to release emotions and stress.

Some use it for the right reasons

Some use it for the wrong.

Whatever the reason,

Lets not based someone on what's on they're profile.

It may be a show.

It maybe a cover up.

It may be a fluke.

It may not even be them!

(some mean people love impersonating others)

So the next time you go on Facebook

Face it, it may be on your other tabs by now =P

Try not to judge someone on what they just wrote

Or whats on their wall, or what others say on the comments

Or how many friends they have

And not even on what they look like in their pictures.

You never know

You may be missing out on a really really nice friend

Someone who may help you in the future

Or just a sounding board or a lending ear

Seriously?! You never know.

So lets not care when people throw negative statements.

And let us not always think they're referring to us.

Let us give everyone the benefit of a doubt.

For everyone has that sweet soul in them.

God loves them and so should we.

Let God do the judging and not steal His role.

Besides,

Facebook does not define who you really are.

=)